When thinking about whether something was traumatising to you, it's essential to remember that your response and emotions are completely valid. One thing may be traumatising to one person but not another. It's completely subjective and your early childhood experiences and attachment play a key role in how you cope with trauma in adulthood. It's also important to never minimise your past and never compare it to someone else.
When you say to yourself, 'i'm ok, they have it way worse than me' - you completely invalidate your own experience and don't allow your nervous system the opportunity to process it.
This months Happy Heads Reset is called 'Processing Trauma' and will help you do exactly that. You'll get:
- Insight into trauma and how it effects the brain and nervous system.
- Tapping video to follow that will help you process your trauma.
- Top Tips on how to calm your nervous system anytime you go into the fight / flight / freeze response.
- Guided meditation to bring your brain back into balance and integrate your nervous system.
Follow the link HERE to sign up to the Happy Heads Monthly Reset, It's completely free!
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If you would like to work 1:1 with me to process your trauma please get in touch kim@happyheads.me I would love to hear from you xx
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OVERCOME YOUR NEGATIVE THOUGHTS
MONTHLY RESET - NOW LIVE!
We have on average between 6,000 - 60,000 thoughts per day. If most of those are negative it's easy to see how this can have a detrimental impact on your mental health and wellbeing.
The January Happy Heads Monthly Reset is called 'Overcome Your Negative Thoughts' and includes:
- Insight into negative thinking and the impact it can have on our mental and physical wellbeing.
- A tapping video to help you overcome your negative thoughts.
- Top tips to help you change your mindset and think more positively.
- Guided meditation to bring your brain back into balance.
To get it simply sign up to the Happy Heads Monthly Reset. You'll also get a FREE meditation as soon as you join xx
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MANIFEST THE LIFE YOU WANT
"A manifestation is something that is put into your physical reality through thought, feelings and beliefs" Law of Attraction
Without consciously realising - we are always manifesting. Every thought you have creates an energy flow within and around your physical being. This energy attracts its likeness. So if you’re thinking “I’m not good enough” then your energy may start to reflect that and it will be harder to attract positive experiences that align to your authentic self.
The opposite experience occurs when you think high-level thoughts like 'I AM good enough’. Your energy will start to exude confidence and positivity and in turn will attract better experiences into your life. Every thought you have informs your energy, and your energy manifests into your experiences so to put it simply - your thoughts and energy create your reality.
Here is the four step process to follow when you manifest your dreams:
Step 1. Let Go Of Resistance
Before you can think about manifesting your dreams, you first need to let go of resistence and self doubt that might be holding you back. These are the limiting, negative beliefs that your brain defaults to when you even begin to think about what you want from your life
Step 2. Set A Goal
The next step is to actually set a goal. What are your biggest dream? What truly makes you happy? It’s much harder to get to a destination if you don’t know where you want to go. If you don’t yet know what you want from your life then think about how you want to FEEL - calm, happy, grounded, confident, empowered…. this is equally as important and can often inform you of your dreams.
Step 3. Learn To Attract Deliberately
You have set your destination, now you have to get there.
You have set your intention and know what you want from the universe, so now you must take action to ensure that your dream is manifested into a reality. If you set your goal and then put it to the back of your mind, it will never become a reality. Remember, you are what you give your attention to. Therefore, you should try to fuel your dream with as much positive attention as possible.
Here are some of the best ways to fuel your dream with positive attention;
Speak about it
Dream about it
Talk about it
Think about it
Create a dream board
Use visualisation
Use affirmations
Feel good about it!
Fill your mind with thoughts of you living out your dreams and feel excited about it. This should immediately heighten your positive energy and emit a frequency to the universe that you will want it to match.
Step 4 – Act ‘As If’
When you act, speak, think and feel ‘as if’ you are already living your dreams. The Law Of Attraction can work to match all of the positivity that you are emitting and provide you with more of the same.
For many, acting ‘as if’ can be a great cause of internal conflict. After all, you are acting ‘as if’ you are rich/successful/healthy/happy when your reality may suggest completely otherwise. However, it is important to try and avoid this inner conflict at all costs. Your task is to feel as good as though you are already living your dreams.
So, begin to believe more and allow yourself to feel good knowing that your dreams are already on their way.
Finally – dream big! The bigger your dreams, the more beautiful your reality can become.
Tapping is a powerful tool at helping you manifest the life you want because it enables you to do a number of things:
Identify what your dreams actually are
Begin to shift your internal narrative about the dream
Overcome any self doubt that will be holding you back from manifesting
Release negative energy in your nervous system that might block your dream
Put it out into the universe with powerful, spoken affirmations like I AM SUCCESSFUL , I AM HAPPY
Watch the video above to see how you can use tapping to manifest your dreams.
WELLBEING RETREAT - 1 DAY TO GO!
TRANSFORM YOUR MIND, BODY & SOUL…
“The happy heads retreat was the perfect reset button for me. The retreat was a brilliant combination of self help tricks, reflection and goal setting. Kim is a truly wonderful facilitator who draws on her own experiences and struggles to help her clients rationalise and work trough theirs. I would highly reccomend this retreat to anyone, those with specific areas they want to work on, or those who want to book in and just get a life MOT, it’s a fantastic course I would love to do all over again." Liz
Only 5 days until the Happy Heads Wellbeing Retreat begins! It's been specifically designed to help you transform your mental and physical wellbeing enabling you to kick start 2023 feeling calm, grounded and empowered.
"I got so much from the retreat with Kim. I learned some really effective ways to control my demons and make the day-to-day more manageable. And the guided meditations gave me a beautiful introduction to the practice. Kim has the most open, comfortable and kind presence - it was a real joy. Would highly recommend."
Toby
To make it easily manageable the retreat is set across 4 lunch time sessions.
Each Wednesday @12pm there will be a 1.5hr LIVE online workshop that will help you delve deeper into what you really want from the year ahead and overcome any self doubt that may be holding you back. Every workshop includes insight into the brain and topic, breathing techniques, guided meditation and Emotional Freedom Technique (Tapping).
4th January - Self Love & Set Intentions
11th January - Overcome Negative Beliefs
18th January - Manifest the Life you Want
25th January - Step into your Power
"The Happy Head’s retreat came at the best time possible for me. The retreat provided the perfect pause for reflection.I would definitely recommend."
Doula
After the workshops you’ll receive a support email that has all the key insights from what you learnt, a meditation recording for you to use, tapping videos to follow and a weekly (easily doable) practice to help you integrate the tools and techniques into your day. Each one will be recorded so if you miss one you can always catch up.
"That was AMAZING Kim thank you. I cried the whole way through it!"
Rachel
It’s been designed to completely reset your mind, body & soul. Spaces are limited, to book on click the link below or you can get in touch kim@happyheads.me.
The whole retreat is £110, spaces are limited don’t miss out!I can't wait to see you all.
Big Love xx
“I have just finished the Happy Heads Retreat and really cannot recommend it highly enough. As someone with a chronic neurological condition I have suffered with worry, self-doubt and anxiety most of my adult life. Kim delivers the sessions in a very calm and gentle manner and she has such a reassuring way about her which really helped me to believe I could achieve what I wanted to. The retreat left me feeling truly empowered. If you want to make a change in your life then I urge you to try it for yourself."
Vikki
WELLBEING RETREAT - 5 DAYS TO GO!
TRANSFORM YOUR MIND, BODY & SOUL…
“The happy heads retreat was the perfect reset button for me. The retreat was a brilliant combination of self help tricks, reflection and goal setting. Kim is a truly wonderful facilitator who draws on her own experiences and struggles to help her clients rationalise and work trough theirs. I would highly reccomend this retreat to anyone, those with specific areas they want to work on, or those who want to book in and just get a life MOT, it’s a fantastic course I would love to do all over again." Liz
Only 5 days until the Happy Heads Wellbeing Retreat begins! It's been specifically designed to help you transform your mental and physical wellbeing enabling you to kick start 2023 feeling calm, grounded and empowered.
"I got so much from the retreat with Kim. I learned some really effective ways to control my demons and make the day-to-day more manageable. And the guided meditations gave me a beautiful introduction to the practice. Kim has the most open, comfortable and kind presence - it was a real joy. Would highly recommend."
Toby
To make it easily manageable the retreat is set across 4 lunch time sessions.
Each Wednesday @12pm there will be a 1.5hr LIVE workshop that will help you delve deeper into what you really want from the year ahead and overcome any self doubt that may be holding you back. Every workshop includes insight into the brain and topic, breathing techniques, guided meditation and Emotional Freedom Technique (Tapping).
4th January - Self Love & Set Intentions
11th January - Overcome Negative Beliefs
18th January - Manifest the Life you Want
25th January - Step into your Power
"The Happy Head’s retreat came at the best time possible for me. The retreat provided the perfect pause for reflection.I would definitely recommend."
Doula
After the workshops you’ll receive a support email that has all the key insights from what you learnt, a meditation recording for you to use, tapping videos to follow and a weekly (easily doable) practice to help you integrate the tools and techniques into your day. Each one will be recorded so if you miss one you can always catch up.
"That was AMAZING Kim thank you. I cried the whole way through it!"
Rachel
It’s been designed to completely reset your mind, body & soul. Spaces are limited, to book on click the link below or you can get in touch kim@happyheads.me.
The whole retreat is £110, spaces are limited don’t miss out!I can't wait to see you all.
Big Love xx
“I have just finished the Happy Heads Retreat and really cannot recommend it highly enough. As someone with a chronic neurological condition I have suffered with worry, self-doubt and anxiety most of my adult life. Kim delivers the sessions in a very calm and gentle manner and she has such a reassuring way about her which really helped me to believe I could achieve what I wanted to. The retreat left me feeling truly empowered. If you want to make a change in your life then I urge you to try it for yourself."
Vikki
HAPPY HEADS WELLBEING RETREAT
“I have just finished the Happy Heads Retreat and really cannot recommend it highly enough. As someone with a chronic neurological condition I have suffered with worry, self-doubt and anxiety most of my adult life. Kim delivers the sessions in a very calm and gentle manner and she has such a reassuring way about her, which really helped me to believe I could achieve what I wanted to. The retreat left me feeling truly empowered.
If you want to make a change in your life then I urge you to try it for yourself.”
TRANSFORM YOUR MIND, BODY AND SOUL….
The Happy Heads Wellbeing Retreat is officially back and i'm so excited to share it with you! It's been specifically designed to help you transform your mental and physical wellbeing enabling you to kick start 2023 feeling calm, grounded and empowered.
To make it easily manageable the retreat is set across 4 lunch time sessions.
Each Wednesday @12pm there will be a 1.5hr LIVE workshop that will help you delve deeper into what you really want from the year ahead and overcome any self doubt that may be holding you back. Every workshop includes insight into the brain and topic, breathing techniques, guided meditation and Emotional Freedom Technique (Tapping).
4th January - Self Love & Set Intentions
11th January - Overcome Negative Beliefs
18th January - Manifest the Life you Want
25th January - Step into your Power
After the workshops you’ll receive a support email that has all the key insights from what you learnt, a meditation recording for you to use, tapping videos to follow and a weekly (easily doable) practice to help you integrate the tools and techniques into your day. Each one will be recorded so if you miss one you can always catch up.
It’s been designed to completely reset your mind, body & soul. Spaces are limited, to book on click the link below or you can get in touch kim@happyheads.me.
The whole retreat is £110 but special Early Bird Tickets are only £80, don’t miss out! xx
TAPPING FOR TIRED MUMS
Being a mum to a little one can feel really challenging because you are often sleep deprived and that's tough! When you’ve had a bad nights sleep there is a 66% amplification to your brains amygdala (fear response) which means:
- It’s easy to feel more anxious
- Harder to think clearly and focus
- Easier to think negatively
- Harder to self regulate your emotions
- Your nervous system may feel frazzled and more sensitive
- You may feel floaty and like you’re on another planet
Whilst I can’t give you the gift of sleep I do know how to calm your nervous system, which is all you need to do on days when you’ve had zero sleep and you'll be surprised at how much more awake you feel afterwards!
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Watch this video to see how it's done and reset your tired mind 👆🏼
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TAPPING FOR PARENTS
Finding time for self care as a parent can be tough when all your energy is being poured into your little ones. A child's brain is still very much developing, which is why they are unable to self regulate their emotions - they need us to help them. That's incredibly hard to do if you're feeling exhausted, stressed, anxious and low. The more you nurture your own mind, the easier it is to nurture theirs.
Watch this video to see how you can use tapping to calm your incredible parent brain.
If you would like more support nurturing your mind please get in touch kim@happyheads.me I would love to help xx
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TAPPING ON BURNOUT
I’ve faced many difficult things in my life but burnout was one of the most traumatic. Completely losing your mental health is terrifying and it takes time for your nervous system to recover. Overcoming burnout and learning how to nurture my mental health and wellbeing was profound and one of the reasons I'm so passionate about helping people do the same.
Watch this video to see how you can use tapping to process burnout and bring your nervous system back into some much needed balance.
“Thanks so much for all your wonderful support, this programme has been transformative”
If you would like some more support please check out the Happy Heads Burnout Programme. It's been designed specifically to help you:
Overcome burnout, bringing calm and peace to your mind
Improve your mental and physical wellbeing
Release negative energy from your nervous system that built up in the workplace
Rebuild your confidence and self belief
Bring your nervous system back into balance (after being under constant stress)
Reduce anxiety and stress in both body and mind
Bring you back to yourself once again!
Improve your sleep & Focus
If this is something that interests you please get in touch kim@happyheads.me for more details, I would love to hear from you xx
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IMPROVE YOUR SLEEP
Do you struggle with your sleep?
Do you often wake up feeling exhausted?
Do you wake in the night and then find it hard to get back to sleep?
If you answered yes to any of the above then you should watch this tapping video because sleep is absolutely essential for a good functioning mental health. Your brain is busy and active all day long so you need to find time to 'wind your mind down' before going to bed. Calming your nervous system at the end of a hectic day is the best way to ensure you improve the quality of your sleep and ultimately boost your energy for when you wake up.
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TAPPING TO REDUCE ANXIETY
Anxiety is completely normal and we all have our own personal triggers. Knowing how to bring your nervous system back into balance is the best way to empower yourself so that anxiety can't run the show anymore. Tapping is an incredible tool for nurturing your wellbeing. Watch this video to see how tapping can greatly reduce any anxiety you're experiencing today.
If you really want to give your mental health a reset and you’re looking for something longer term I have the brilliant Happy Heads Wellbeing Programme. It’s been designed to completely transform your wellbeing over the course of 6 weeks and includes:
3 x 1-1 sessions (1.5hr each)
Process several big blocks in life that might be holding you back
Overcome your negative core beliefs and process past memories
Silence your inner critic and bring your nervous system back into balance
2 x 20 min phone call check-ins to ensure you feel fully a supported
Several guided meditations to use across the 6 weeks
Tapping videos to follow
Daily practices to integrate into your own routine
Just get in touch for a 20 minute FREE consultation kim@happyheads.me xx
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CALM YOUR NERVOUS SYSTEM - NOW LIVE!
Your body is an incredible tool of wisdom yet so many people speak negatively to their body or fail to nurture it in the way that it deserves. Your body is filled with a very complex nervous system that connects all your vital organs to your brain and many things in life can affect it…
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This months Happy Heads Reset is all about bringing your nervous system back into balance. You’ll get a tapping video that shows you how to use the technique anytime you feel stressed or anxious and top tips on how to calm your nervous system.
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Your body is amazing, it’s time to look after it. Follow the link above to sign up xx 👆🏼
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SHAME vs GUILT
Guilt and shame can be hugely toxic for your mental health and nervous system - but they’re not the same! Understanding the difference and their route courses is a HUGE step in overcoming both of them and freeing yourself from their grip 👊🏽
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I’ve been learning more about shame and guilt on the master trauma training course by @nicabm_ Here is a really helpful infographic to explain the difference.
GRIEF SUPPORT - 4th Dec🖤
If you've ever lost someone in your life you will understand the indescribable pain it causes, it's almost hard to put into words. I've lived with grief my whole life so deeply understand how it feels and also how it CAN be transformed into something quite magical.
Join me on 4th December at 10am where I’ll provide you with a safe space to gently process your grief and re-connect with the loved one you lost. The 1hr session includes:
Insight into grief and how it can manifest both physically and mentally
Breathing techniques - to help calm and soothe your nervous system, enabling you to process the grief whenever it arises
Guided meditation - this will be a lovely visualisation to help you process any grief held in the body and re-connect with the person you’ve lost - tuning in to some wise words they may have
Emotional Freedom Technique (tapping) - this will help to release any grief tension held in your body and mind, reframing any negative / overwhelming thoughts
The workshop is £15.
To book click the button below or head to the events page of She’s Lost Control - www.sheslostcontrol.co.uk xx